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 Posted: Thu 11:12, 05 May 2011 Post subject: Gucci Pelham Confronting Change |
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I always told human, before couples go into counseling, they should take individual counseling for themselves for a few months. For the uncomplicated reason to see if they love themselves. Then they should sit with their therapist and associate to work things out.
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