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| I and husband marry 12 years, son already 10 years old. This year the beginning of the year, husband says to me, the plan lets a mother-in-law come to my home, if live so that the habit did not let a mother-in-law go back, but I am not willing, so, husband is very dissatisfactory to me, the family of husband, there is some of acquaintance to also make carding comments to me beside me even, but I do not think I have the place with wrong what, I think the right and obligation are quits, the mother-in-law had not have assumed her to be in consuetudinary on the responsibility that should assume, by what requirement am I assumed consuetudinary on the obligation that should I assume? ? ?
In those days when we marry, I in Jiangxi a small town becomes a teacher, my husband works in Zhejiang, two places apart more than 1000 lis of 1 ground. At ordinary times two people see on one side is bad, never mention it took care of each other. After be pregnant, I myself can take care of myself only, but because my body is poorer, add after be pregnant inappetence, ask to alimental taste so taller, and the position that I work is in the suburb of that small town, pretty restaurant does not have even the home (calculate actually have hotel I also am hated to part with, when marrying because of me, a minute of money does not have husband's family, the external debt that still carrying husband on the back to owe spent half an year, when be pregnant, also be debt just pay off before long thing, that meeting income low, two people are added do not cross 1000 together yuan, so, the old person in special hope home (mother-in-law or mom) will take care of me. But, when in me husband reveals this meaning to his family member, his family expresses to won't take care of me, and connect the child of my general a future life also do not plan to take, his brother still says: "When my wife is pregnant, my Mom also was not taken care of, your wife is pregnant, my Mom also should not go! " my husband is very uncomfortable to the word of his elder brother, but his Mom and his father said to not be willing his Mom will take care of me, so he can put forward to let my Mom take care of me only. Incommensurate wet steam awaits my Mom, the body also all the time very poor but for the child in I and my abdomen, be pregnant in me 4 months when, my Mom came Jiangxi, be born to me all the time, my Mom is taking care of me all the time, his home did not call during had come over, we also hit the past without the phone, his family member calls when my fast is unripe came, saying is not to plan to serve confinement MBT Lami Women's Shoes, what did I say, at that time, I am enmeshed in the joyance that does a mother at all, any behavior to their this family not care a nut. The child was born later, it is the boy, his elder brother calls again came, it is earnest delegate this his parents informs me, during I do month of confinement after giving birth to a child, his family member won't appear, because their home is not heavy male light female, at the outset child of their wife and children (the girl) when be born, his Mom did not serve confinement, so I do month of confinement after giving birth to a child his Mom also won't come, his word says a bit excitedly, I feel he is very comical, laughing to say, do not have a thing, he is urgent, gas groans say, "You are not willing, wait for child a baby's completion of its first month of life my Mom can visit grandchildren! " say ring off. This falls to enrage me, I feel his elder brother is very beyond the mark, do not come, what manner? Look for me to quarrel either? I want to jump over gas more, said with husband, husband answers the family that protects him however I am angrier, also did not do good for this confinement, think oneself are really foolish now. Later child a baby's completion of its first month of life, just my Mom because in the home occupied, went back, his Mom came a month. His Mom washs the dress to be being carried during my home wash, wash her son only, I and husband said, husband says her, she is returned in that way, I also did not say, I am done not have fortunately only full 42 days when go to the fields washs the dress, I am Caesarean birth, firm go to the fields when the waist aches, blade aches, but without method, I cannot bathe but must change clean clothes. Those who cross the child is raise to know in the home, when the child just was born, do not have by day in the evening, the child that does a person does not sleep to must cuddle in night, my home child such, that meets me is to sitting to sleep everyday, there is the child in the bosom, sleep to wake partly partly overnight of one night boil. It is every morning when I am the tireddest MBT Sapatu Men's Sandals, be forced to let his Mom hold the child in the arms to sitting in the courtyard in the morning everyday so, but his Mom is like very tired, call my husband to give her drug of buttocks root put on the skin in the evening everyday, one put on the skin is a many hour, allegedly that medicine must be kneaded slowly, ability is effective. Husband goes to work one day so busy that resemble a top, return so that help me look after children in the evening, the drug of a hour still must be rubbed to her among, I am looked at not pleasing to the eye, but what did I say, the original intention of family mother son, I provide what job, nevertheless, his Mom is willing not quite his son looks after children in the evening, I say total, class of his son white sky is quite tired, in the evening as far as possible what myself takes is good, see this mom feel distressed more son ah, rub drug not weighty? Knead a hour to not be afraid that the son is tired? Look not to understand! Again his Mom came home later, I was taking the child to return a married woman's parents' home. Again the child puts grandmother home to should read elementary school till 5 years old all the time later MBT Men Tariki shoes Black, I move the urban work that husband is in eventually, we just reunion. During, their home always censures me, because they did not look after children to not be willing,say me what of what, my whats did not say actually, perhaps my husband said, nevertheless, I do not know I am not willing what to have incorrect. According to the theory of their home, I marry not to give money, it is the reason that moment of his home eldest son did not give, next I am pregnant, giving birth to the child to be not served also is the cause that wife of his home eldest son did not enjoy, but, the child of his home eldest son is his mother is being taken all the time however until read nursery school. I want not to understand, be to want a bowl of Shui Duanping? How is end of out of line smooth? His Mom still has said even, will not take care of me to be afraid that old daughter-in-law is not willing namely, I did not understand, how can be afraid that she is not willing, do not allow me to not be willing? does a bowl of water that this wants Duan Ping still look to who? Look not to understand! When my Mom helps me look after children in those days already 60 much, hypertensive, diabetic, heart disease, the waist is taken off UGG Classic Cardy Boots Grey 5819, rheumatism, help me a child drag is big but not allow really easy, can Where is his Mom? Ache besides buttocks root beyond what defect also is done not have, was opposite, because buttock polyp has become an operation! But the reason that she does not look after children is the body bad! More than of course this one reason. They return more the reason of high-sounding: This child is I am unripe should I am taken! Should not let my Mom help an area! What this word says is quite right also, the child is me, I am responsible of course accountability also take care of him, but I want not to understand, husband and wife of his home eldest son opened a store twice, every month goes checking auditorial into replenish onr's stock, lay between a few days of outstanding achievement that go seeing counterjumper in inn not to bring a child, even he is old Mom helps all the time the nursery school on the child, my person works in foreign land, a family member is done not have beside, even the acquaintance that job of neither one blame concerns, how can be I taken an infant? Because I am preterhuman,be, be because is my child unworthiness taken care of well,still? Of course, how do they say uggs for cheap, how to do the thing that is them, I am in charge of, also do not consider a pipe. But, pushed to oneself obligation when them when, I also hope they do not force any quits obligation to my body again! I and their what concern? If not be to marry that man, I and they do not buy on a bit concern. And they also are like stranger person to my manner same, they had not taken care of me, had not cared me, criticize severely by every means to me for shirk responsibility even. I did not take care of the mother-in-law's obligation, because the mother-in-law has done not have quits obligation! |||Not necessary be at ease these grouchy things in, the mother-in-law is bad to you, you are bit cooler to her, indifferent, make she knows OK. Relevant Information： discount ugg boots people is going after money ugg boot sale Dot MBT Panda Women's Sandals buy mbt workout shoe but like really UGG Classic Short Ultramarine Boots go all the wa |
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