gucci hobo tote My Inner "Brat"

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You've heard mention of that "inner child," the needy, vulnerable part of you that you neglect or criticize. We therapists often talk about "the baby part of you" or "the child side of you" as a way to address dependency issues. You know you've got a kid inside of you, right?
Freud thought of depression as aggression turned inward against the self. I've never found that way of thinking very useful in a practical way, but I do think psychic violence is at the heart of many types of depression. Helping clients to hear and recognize the violence as it occurs is the first step; helping them to cope with it is the second and more difficult task.
In more serious cases, the inner child goes into a destructive rage and wrecks everything, mostly the internal landscape but often external relations as well; this can lead to depressive states of mind. Most of my clients with this issue at first had no idea that internal rage and tantrums were the problem. They felt only the depressive aftermath. As I touched on in my prior post about depression, in debilitating cases [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I often feel as if I've entered a wasteland: the person's mind has been utterly devastated by rage [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], almost as if hit by a nuclear holocaust.

Humor aside [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I believe this to be a serious issue for many people, and the hardest part in therapy is getting them to realize that the reason they're struggling is because an immature part of them -- a child who can't tolerate frustration very well and has unreasonable expectations -- is having a tantrum. Sometimes the child gets his or her way and the adult side gives in. This can lead to impulsive, ill-considered choices followed by shame and regret.
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A lot of the time, mine's a brat. He's very impatient, impulsive and demanding, and when he doesn't get his way, he gets angry. He sometimes throws a fit in there, which can be very unpleasant, usually for me alone though sometimes he can be unpleasant to unfortunate bystanders. [Think Veruca Salt in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory: "I want an Oompah-Loompah, Daddy. I want an Oompah-Loompah now!"] Managing my inner brat can be a major challenge.
The second half of this article, about "Finding Your Own Way," can be found on my website at: /my-inner-brat
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